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What do men want........

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by DaisyGirl, Apr 9, 2012.

  1. syncro

    syncro Well-Known Member

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    I am in the same situation........ I give, she takes
     
  2. DaisyGirl

    DaisyGirl Guest

    Thks Mark great words of wisdom as usual. :)

    As Kombimadness mentioned it is all to do with the right timing so I just need to accept that :umm: and focus on finishing my studies and work.
     
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  3. CAPTAIN

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    That's gold!!

    I think it comes down to not asking what a guy wants but what do I want.... then doing those things, living the lifestyle you wanna live, including hobbies, interests, recreational activities etc If you hang around like minded people, you 'll get to know genuine/honest/trustworthy people that could be a potential match....or you could meet the friend or sibling of a potential partner....who knows?? That's why I suggest living your life the way you wanna live it, someone with a similar life plan will also want to be a part of your life..... I think most men find happy women attractive!!
    Oldman is spot on about negotiating and being flexible in your approach....we can all sit here and say "well it's just the way I am, I've always been like this" but in reality we all have to evolve...All of us here on KC use the internet now don't we?? we didn't always!
    Not all men are good communicators or good at expressing their feelings, but doesn't give us the right to be @$$holes....so a supportive partner to help us through our ups & downs would be nice....and vice versa.
    as for the sexy time....I think that's a by-product of a healthy relationship....not so much about sexual compatibility...I think the happier you are with each other, the more comfortable & open minded you'll be in that department.
    Oh and lingerie is nice.....but sleeping naked is nicer.
    Cheers, Chris.
     
  4. syncro

    syncro Well-Known Member

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    That's what the wife says. But I still like wearing my lingerie:eek:

    Don't pick heavy drinker, gambler or woman basher. They never change
     
  5. Grantus

    Grantus Well-Known Member

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    As far as change goes, after 28 years together, I realise my operating system was "Husband 1.0", at the start.

    She upgraded me to "Husband 1.1" which includes the cleaning, washing machine, and dishwasher function, although the operating system slows a bit, and it's takes up memory. ("Husband 1.2" includes food prep & cooking, but she never bothered with that upgrade....)

    I married "Wife 3.2.6", which took a long time to understand all the functions. Apparently, there's auto updates to this program on a regular basis. :eek:

    I used to be able to keep up with all the changes, for quite a few updates............

    Now she's running "Wife 10.4.2", and I know longer have a clue......:wtf:


    Supposedly it keeps me interested and guessing....... :heart:
     
  6. john doherty

    john doherty Well-Known Member

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    PEACE.:cool: John Doherty in Adelaide
     
  7. Luckyphil

    Luckyphil Well-Known Member

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    To be taken seriously and not only treated as a sex object :)
     
  8. oldman

    oldman Super Moderator Staff Member

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    Now THAT has to be a milestone.....a one word post from the SA poet laureate :eek: :p
    Cheers, Mark
     
  9. DaisyGirl

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    Wow Mark I thought the same thing....:eek:
     
  10. Justin

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    Mr JD MUST have a fever . . . . :lol:
     
  11. jon ward

    jon ward Active Member

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    I want stability, happiness and a positive attitude in a woman.
     
  12. phatratpat

    phatratpat New Member

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    turn up naked,and bring beer !!.........:p
     
  13. kombie200

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    Im single at present and quiet happy with how my life is travelling. I know one day that right person will come along. just enjoy your life to it's most
     
  14. DaisyGirl

    DaisyGirl Guest

    Me too Jon - pity you are way toooooo young for me - thks for reminding that I want the same thing. :)


    Seriously???? that's all????? what type of beer :p
     
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  15. cbus

    cbus Well-Known Member

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    Seriously???? that's all????? what type of beer :p[/QUOTE]

    Pats not fussy.
    Any brand of beer:)

    col
     
  16. Justin

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    i think Mr ward already has a missus anyway
     
  17. DaisyGirl

    DaisyGirl Guest

    Yeah I knowed that just mucking about Justin :lol:
     
  18. cbus

    cbus Well-Known Member

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    Ditto CAPTAINS post #23

    col
     
  19. jon ward

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    Nah mate, I got out of that one, too horrific even for me!

    Hence the stability, positive attitude, etc...
     
  20. Luckyphil

    Luckyphil Well-Known Member

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    The question is "What do men want" well it depends on what time of day.
     

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